Mail Call
Several weeks after my mother passed away, while rummaging
through some of the drawers in her bedroom, I came across a
bundle of old onionskin letters fastened with a rubber band that
was as stiff as a clothespin. Immediately I knew what they were
because my father's name on the return address of the envelopes
was preceded by the abbreviation Capt. They were letters
he had written my mother while serving in the U.S. Army during
the Second World War. A young man, recently graduated from
medical school, he was assigned to the 94th General
Hospital which was stationed near Bristol, England.
I set the crinkly letters aside, not sure if I wanted to look at
them. I suppose I thought it was rude, an invasion of privacy,
something I never would have contemplated if my parents were
alive. I put the letters in a plastic box and put the box on a
back shelf, as if hoping I would forget about them.
My father seldom spoke about his service in the conflict, other
than to recall some lighthearted incidents that always brought a
smile to his face. The one unpleasant detail he did discuss with
me and my brother was the offer he received from an Army pilot to
fly him to Ireland one weekend so he could see where his father
was born, but then the flight was postponed because the day they
were to take off the fog was too dense. Soon after that the pilot
was killed in a plane crash and my father never made it to the
Emerald Isle.
All I knew about his work in the Army was that he assisted in a
lot of orthopedic procedures. One of his nurses told my mother
that she was often concerned about his stamina because he was
very frail and spent so many hours on his feet at the operating
table. Before he enlisted, he had considered specializing in
orthopedic medicine, but after his experience in England, he had
seen enough smashed and broken bones, and decided to go into
another specialty.
His silence about his service was typical of many veterans who
wished to spare their loved ones the grisly events they witnessed
during the war. It was a time better let go, perhaps, an
aberration that revealed the worst about people. It is also
difficult to articulate the darkness found in the hearts of
others; it is not something that can be explained with a
stethoscope or a thermometer. Pain is an obstinate fact, a
consequence, not an explanation of the wickedness of those who
inflict it.
A few months later I decided to look at the letters, hoping they
would shed some light on what my father actually went through as
a military physician. I was sorely disappointed, however, because
the letters continued the silence my father maintained all his
life concerning his wartime service. He mentioned he was busy.
"Just work and more work," he wrote but his letters scarcely
revealed anything he did on his ward. Instead, they were filled
with the predictable complaints and requests and gossip of any
soldier compelled to be thousands of miles from his family and
home. Always, of course, he reiterated his affection for my
mother and his eagerness to return to the States and be back in
her arms. Occasionally his loneliness and discouragement seeped
through, but then he quickly lightened the tone with some
humorous remark or interesting recollection.
His desire to return home was palpable. In one letter, recalling
a friend who had served in an evacuation hospital attached to
General George Patton's Third Army, he described in covetous
detail the furnishings of a Nazi mansion in Germany where his
friend had been garrisoned for a few weeks. He wrote of the
fancy feather bed his friend slept on, the large radio
at his disposal, the many deer that roamed the grounds. It was
not the barracks life he had become accustomed to for so many
months, but was a glimpse into what he hoped would be his life
after the war.
In a sense, what my father didn't say in his letters was almost
as significant as what he did say. They were, I realized after
reading them, not an occasion for him to recount the grim
realities he faced every day treating wounded soldiers his own
age, rather they were a chance not to think about such realities.
Perhaps, too, he recognized that words were simply not adequate
to describe what he had seen overseas. Perhaps his silence was an
admission of the futility of trying to describe to those at home
what they could never understand.
Sitting on a suitcase in his barracks, using his mattress for a
desktop, he wrote as if he were not in a war zone at all, but
back with his wife discussing the mundane concerns of other
tenants in their small apartment. In his letters he was not
really a soldier – in them he was a civilian again who
"would paddle a canoe home if they would let me."
by Thomas R. Healy
... who is a freelance writer residing in the Pacific Northwest,
with works previously published in Appalachia,
The Climbing Art, and The Palo Alto
Review.
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